We’ve long heard that masturbation makes you deaf. Is that true? Well, we’ll break the suspense straight away and tell you… no, it doesn’t! Prejudices about masturbation are hard to dispel, because for a long time it was considered taboo (and even banned by certain religions). In this article, we take a look at a few myths in order to talk about masturbation and sex in a friendly way. After all, sexuality is also a form of self-care.
Myth No. 1: Masturbation is shameful and dirty!
No, masturbation is normal and far from dirty. If some people feel this way, it may be because they are ashamed of their sexuality. And masturbation is no exception.
If it makes you feel any better, a large proportion of the population does it (an estimated 75%). So it’s quite common, and that doesn’t make you an obsessive.
Myth 2: It’s bad for your health
There are a ton of questions surrounding masturbation, such as ‘does masturbation make you deaf, blind, impotent or sterile? But it doesn’t. You can even see it as something good for your health: it helps you relax, get to know yourself better and sleep better. It can even relieve chronic or menstrual pain.
PS: while masturbation and sex in general are good for your health, remember to protect yourself properly against STIs!
Myth 3: Masturbation is cheating
Again, this is completely false. Masturbation is a solitary pleasure, and can even be considered a form of self-care. It’s an intimate moment with yourself that allows you to explore and enjoy yourself. It’s not about cheating on your partner. And being in a relationship doesn’t mean you have to give it up!
On the contrary, masturbation can be very good for intimacy between the two of you, as it allows you to get to know your own body. So you’ll be better able to guide your partner and maximise your pleasure together (or together).
Myth 4: Masturbation reduces the desire to have sex
While the previous three answers were categorical, this one is a little more nuanced. As a general rule, masturbation shouldn’t take away your desire to have sex with your partner. But it can cause problems if you develop an addiction to it. If masturbation is having a negative effect on your relationship and your life in general (preventing you from living a normal life, interfering with your work), you should consult a sexologist.
Conclusion
So, does masturbation make you deaf? Well, no. Masturbation is even good for your health! The prejudices surrounding masturbation are notoriously hard to crack. The common myths surrounding the practice are generally based on stereotypes and outdated social norms. But in any case, whether you practise it or not, it’s always a personal matter! So trust your desires and your body, and always with kindness. And don’t forget, if you need help, you can always ask a sexologist for help.
