Although sexuality is an integral part of our lives, it can sometimes be a source of questions and worries. If you are experiencing difficulties with your sexuality, whether psychological or physical, you can consult what is known as a sexologist. But when is it time to take the plunge and consult a sexologist? Find out from Dr. Amélie Andreani Jardot. Amélie Andreani Jardot, psychiatrist, psychotherapist FMH, couple psychotherapist and sexologist in Morges.
What is a sexologist?
A sexologist is a health professional who specialises in issues relating to sexuality. He/she is there to support you when you encounter difficulties or have questions about your intimate life.Pour quelles problématiques peut-on consulter un·e sexologue?
What problems should I consult a sexologist about?
A sexologist can help you with a range of issues relating to the ‘mechanics’ of your body, such as..:
- Erectile dysfunction
- Anorgasmia (lack of orgasm)
- Pain during intercourse
- Premature or late ejaculation
Of course, a sexologist can also help you with the ‘psychological’ aspects of your sexuality, such as
- Communication between partners
- Problems with desire
- Developing your sexual identity
- Support following sexual violence
- etc.
Of course, this list is not exhaustive, and you don’t need to have a particular problem to consult a sexologist. If you simply have questions about your sexuality or want to improve your sex life, a professional will be able to help you see things more clearly and find solutions tailored to your needs.
How do I choose my sex therapist?
Choosing your sex therapist is an important step in the process. To find a professional who is competent and suited to your needs, consider the following criteria:
- Experience and qualifications: it’s essential to choose someone who has a degree and undergoes regular training.
- Availability: depending on the nature of your problem, you will need to visit their practice more or less frequently. Make sure that the sex therapist has enough time available for your therapy to run its course.
- Making an appointment: to ensure that you waste as little time as possible, find out how to make an appointment. Do you have to email, call or make an appointment online?
- Reputation: you’ll find lots of useful reviews, for example on Google or on the sex therapist’s website. This will also tell you about their methods.
- Feeling: Feeling is important. So it’s best to choose a sex therapist you feel comfortable with. You’ll be talking to him or her about intimate matters.
Are the services of a psychologist reimbursed by health insurance?
In Switzerland, the services of a sex therapist may be reimbursed by basic health insurance in certain situations. This is particularly the case when sex therapies are carried out by a doctor or by a sex therapist-psychologist delegated by a psychiatrist. However, it’s best to check this before the first session.
